Teaching S Factor has been one of the most rewarding experiences of my life. It’s challenging to put words to why I love it so much, but I will try!
Spring: A Time of Listening
I spend every single day listening to my body, but that day, I just did not want to hear what she had to say. I didn’t want to hear her when she said STOP.
I am the Guardian of my Erotic Body
What I have come to own is that I am the guardian of my erotic body. I didn’t always feel that way–I didn’t even know my body needed a guardian.
Becoming Your Own Super-Heroine
What if this year were different from other years? What if instead of making resolutions that you’ll never keep and looking everywhere outside of yourself for answers to a better life, what if you already had all the answers? Right there in your body, in your heart, right this minute.
Happy Holidays
Happy Holidays
What’s in Your Trunk?
I remember the moment. It wasn’t like any other moment in my life. When I deeply understood the profound power of my feminine. It happened about ten years ago. I had already been dancing my erotic when I had an…
You’re Old! Vs. The Magnificence of Age
I love aging. I find the passing of time fascinating, adventurous, freeing and profound. I’ve found it to be sensual, rich, and bliss-filled. And you know what? I find it to be sexyㅡprofoundly sexy.
The Great Letting Go
Some changes happen to us slowly, inching forward over time. Other changes in life happen in these abrupt moments where the shift is happening quickly, immediately, in our bodies. Moments where we cannot help but to reassess, and move forward as changed women.
The Magic of Women
Your intuition is your magic and it is in you. Sometimes, you just need to slow down and listen more closely to be able to hear it. You need to trust those wonderful rumblings in your gut that say “yes,” “no,” “stay” or “go”.
Starving for Attention
The Campfire Theory …
Open Road
The spirit of a wild woman rumbles inside each of us. It needs to be there. And it needs to be heard.
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To connect us to the primal side of life, that side of life that is driven by passion and instinct and verve.
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When you lose your center, you lose
your lust for life, you lose your wolven self. And all that would be left is an empty domesticated creature looking out from behind a dingy window. Pining.
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This wild-ass woman sometimes has got to go and feel the edge of life on the brink of the world.
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I’m taking off tomorrow…
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FEMININE POWER
I asked my friend what the word “feminine” meant to her. She scrunched up her nose as if smelling something putrid and said, “delicate, dainty you know… Effeminate.”⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
I looked up “effeminate” on the internet – “effeminacy is the manifestation of traits in a boy or man that are more often associated with feminine nature, behavior, mannerism, style, or gender roles rather than with masculine nature, behavior, mannerisms, style or roles. It is typically used implying criticism or ridicule of this behavior.”⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
There it is. That last sentence, on Wikipedia no less – “it is typically used implying criticism or ridicule of this behavior.” Effeminate, and the other words we use to express feminine qualities is a word that desperately needs rescuing from a culture that has a wickedly disturbing relationship to all things feminine.
